In the Kitchen with Stacey

Heading Back Into the Kitchen (aka My Open Letter to Twitter)

Posted by: Stacey on: April 15, 2010

I started this blog a little over a year ago as a way to keep track of some of my favorite recipes, as well as to share some of my own.  It was right around that time that I started using Twitter to try to get more traffic.  I would write an entry, post to Facebook and Twitter and leave it at that.  Back then I had about 10 followers, so my reach wasn’t all that great on Twitter.

Therefore, I did what people recommend you do to get more followers: I engaged. I started following people with other like interests – sports, music, tv shows, etc. I would comment here and there when I thought appropriate. Before I knew it, I had increased my following significantly. Unfortunately, at that point, I had little time for blogging.

I started using Twitter as @Chef_Stacey with a spiffy avatar of myself. However, for various personal reasons I changed it to @ChefHLMongoose, keeping Chef in my name and working in Hot Little Mongoose, a nickname bestowed upon me by one of my closest friends. I enjoyed writing under the mongoose persona. It became my creative outlet. I could be funny and sarcastic. Speak my mind. And of course use spiffy mongoose hashtags.

As is the case everywhere in life, not every one is going to like you. I get that. At the end of the day, Twitter is a gathering of mostly strangers judging you solely on thoughts & ideas of 140 characters or less. It is a lot like high school. And guess what? I hated high school. I was a skinny, geeky girl with big glasses who got straight As.  Teenagers are unkind. Apparently, so are adults.

More and more I’ve been reading things that leave me feeling empty. People attacking each other. The gossip. The lies. The drama. It’s not worth it any more. I have taken a hit personally, professionally and emotionally.

I have met some truly great people on Twitter, some in real life. And for those who enjoyed my wit, humor or ramblings, I thank you, but moving forward I will be focusing on my blog.

I’m headed back into my kitchen.  For those who choose to keep following, enjoy the blog. For those who don’t, it’s been a great ride.

#foodlovingmongoose

EDITED:

From comments and @ replies I received, I realized I gave the impression I am leaving Twitter. I am not. I will just be using it mainly to promote my blog. But thanks everyone for the kind words and sentiments.

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11 Responses to "Heading Back Into the Kitchen (aka My Open Letter to Twitter)"

I was skinny and geeky with big glasses too! haha I mean, HUGE glasses. :P

Can’t wait to read more! Oh and Twitter or not, we’re still meeting up! :)

~A

Alice,

Oh yes. Mine were huge. And blue. Because nothing screams dork like gigantic blue glasses on my tiny, pale face.

There was a girl in 9th grade who wanted to beat me up because she thought I was too skinny. Ah…the good ol’ days.

But yes, we will definitely still meet up. You have my email. :)

Sorry to hear you will be leaving Twitter, Stacey. But will look forward to following your blog going forward. Best wishes to you and take care!

Thanks for the kind words! I just edited my posting. I’m staying on Twitter – just refocusing back on the reason I joined to begin with: my blog.

I’ve been enjoying yours as well. Shoot – I need to add it to my blogroll…

Hi Stacey
I hear you…I too refocused my twitter on my original purpose which was to link to my blog.
Twitter is a time sucker, for sure.
xo
J

Yes. I’m grateful for the friends I’ve made as a result of Twitter and hope to continue those friendships. Otherwise, it’s all about the blog.

Yup. What you said.

If you feel like real-life encounters that happen in way more than 140 characters, you know where to find me!

Maybe I should have said “Jane” instead of Well Read Hostess.

NOW you know where to find me!

No prob. I know you are one in the same. :)

We will definitely make that happen. Thanks.

Stacey! You’re too cool to let people get you down. I hated high school too and life doesn’t change much as far as maturity and drama. But hey, if you’re confident in your beliefs and in yourself, what other people say don’t matter! I’ll follow you, and my woman will learn how to cook your recipes… LOL

Thanks for the kind words, Nate. I’ve been waiting for a comment somewhere along the lines of – That’s right woman; get back in the kitchen where you belong. ;) This is the closest thing. Except it’s at your purty girlfriend’s expense.

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